Dakim Blog

April 16, 2010

What is Vascular Dementia?

Written by: Dakim

At a recent caregiver workshop, a lady raised her hand and said that her husband was recently diagnosed with vascular dementia. She wondered how that was different from Alzheimer’s.

Dementia is the big umbrella name for diseases that are neurological and affect our memories and other cognitive abilities. Alzheimer’s is the largest sub-category of dementia followed by vascular dementia.

What is vascular dementia?

Vascular dementia is caused when the blood supply to the brain is blocked. It affects a person’s memory and cognitive functioning, which includes the ability to reason, recognize things, and make sound judgment. It tends to affect people between the ages of 60 and 75. It affects more men than women and appears to be related to heart disease and—particularly—high blood pressure. It can come on gradually or suddenly.

*Vascular Dementia Symptoms Include:

  • Memory problems; forgetfulness
  • Dizziness
  • Leg or arm weakness
  • Lack of concentration
  • Moving with rapid, shuffling steps
  • Loss of bladder or bowel control

Vascular Dementia Can Affect:

  • Slurred speech
  • Language problems
  • Abnormal behavior
  • Wandering or getting lost in familiar surroundings
  • Laughing or crying inappropriately
  • Difficulty following instructions
  • Problems handling money

There is a bit of good news: by doing all you can to prevent heart disease and high blood pressure, you help to prevent vascular dementia. Daily exercise, eating healthy, taking medications prescribed for your conditions, and keeping your brain sharp and engaged are the best ways to prevent vascular dementia and heart disease.

Know the signs of a stroke:

  • Brief episodes of numbness
  • Temporary loss of vision, speech, or strength may indicate a mini-stroke (TIA) or a stroke.

If you experience these symptoms, call 911 immediately. There are medications that, when taken early, can help to prevent or deter the effects of a stroke.

The better we educate ourselves, the more we empower ourselves. Share this information with family and friends. Vascular dementia is one disease we can help to prevent.

*from Helpguide.org

April 4, 2010

Protect Your Alzheimer’s Loved One from Wandering: 5 Tips to Keep Them Safe—and Home

Written by: Dakim

My mom was determined to call a taxi and “go home.” Problem was, we moved two states away! She had Alzheimer’s and I couldn’t convince her that this was her new home. Every time I turned around, she was trying to “escape.” I called her my little Houdini. Once I found her in the bushes outside the front of our house. That scared me. She was quick and stubborn—and it was time to get my act together. Every day, hundreds of elders wander off—many due to Alzheimer’s or dementia. The sad fact is that some don’t make it back.

Every family caregiver with a “wanderer” knows what a challenge this can be. It’s like having a toddler (or a teenager) you can’t turn your back on. You panic and think of every awful, terrible scenario the second you can’t find them.

5 Tips to Keep Our Elders Safe from Wandering:

  • “Elder Proof” your house just as you would for a toddler. Move dangerous chemicals and medication out of reach, make sure your bath water isn’t too hot, and take extra caution when you’re cooking. Be sure to keep stairs clear (or consider a gate). Even consider keeping your keys put away and take precaution if you have a pool or live near a body of water.
  • Get an alarm system on your house and doors. It’ll beep any time there’s activity—because wandering happens all hours of the day and night, even when you are home. Also, get a dead bolt lock (great for doors you don’t use frequently) and keep the key on your keychain—hooked to your person or put up safe.
  • Get your loved one an ID bracelet or other forms of identification. Be sure to have a photo of how they look now.
  • Check to see if your state has the Silver Alert system. It broadcasts a missing elder alert to the news and on the highways.
  • Be friendly with your neighbors, and ask them to help “keep an eye” out. Nothing is more helpful than being surrounded with people who care. If you need to go off, ask a neighbor, church volunteer, or community volunteer to come and sit with your loved one. If they’ve wandered once, they’ll do it again.

These simple tips can help keep your loved one safe. And in the end, gadgets alone don’t keep our elders safe—having people who care and who check on them often is crucial to their safety.

March 16, 2010

"I Remember Better When I Paint": A DVD about the Arts and Alzheimer's

Written by: Dakim

I have a passion for creative expression and the arts, so when a reader (Hi Donald!) pointed me towards this trailer, I clapped my little hands with glee.  It’s narrated by the marvelous Olivia de Havilland, whose voice lends an extra layer of depth and beauty to the project.

The idea behind the film?  Creative workshops, museum trips, and classes that allow hands on artistic expression are being effectively used as therapies for patients with Alzheimer’s and other forms of dementia.    The artistic process taps into parts of the brain largely untouched by  Alzheimer’s,  not only allowing the patients a means of expression, but also forming a bridge of communication with loved ones and caregivers.

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December 24, 2009

12 Days of Brain Fitness Christmas

Written by: Dakim

Forgive me this little indulgence… It’s Christmas Eve, and I couldn’t resist. Feel free to sing along, and/or throw things at me. Ahem!

On the first day of Brain Fitness
My true love gave to me,
Brain training For neuro-plasticity!

On the second day of Brain Fitness
My true love gave to me,
Two power naps,
And brain training for neuro-plasticity!

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December 15, 2009

Alzheimer’s Caregiving: Is Your Care Receiver in Pain and Can’t Tell You?

Written by: Dakim

Alzheimer’s takes so many things from those it affects—their memories, connections, and often their ability to communicate what’s going on. While it’s agonizing to be unable to chat and laugh with your loved one, it’s an even worse feeling to realize they’re in pain—and not know it at the time. As Alzheimer’s takes its course, the connection between cognitive abilities (to comprehend) and communication abilities breaks down and makes it difficult to communicate feelings of pain. Some studies have shown that 25–50% of people with Alzheimer’s are experiencing significant levels of pain.

This divide can continue to grow and cause our care receivers to be unable to share when they have a headache, toothache, back pain, sinus infection, urinary tract infection, pneumonia, arthritis pain, or—even worse—symptoms of cancer, broken bones, or elder abuse.

Here are some “signs” that your loved one may be in pain:

  • Anxiety and agitation: UTI’s can cause a sense of heightened awareness—a nervous feeling that’s part pain and part irritation.
  • Wincing or tensing when moved: Watch their facial expressions as you lift them on and off the toilet or in and out of bed. Watch their muscles—see if they’re favoring one side or another, or acting protective of one area. Watch their hands or feet—do they curl or spaz when being moved?
  • Moaning, yelling, whimpering, swaying, or cradling: Think how you act when you stub your toe or have a toothache. How would you communicate that if you didn’t have words?
  • Changes in appetite, sleep, or avoiding certain habitual routines: Just like when we’re in pain, we can’t concentrate. We spend all our energies on our pain, and other normal routines get sidelined.

These are some of the basic pain indicators. They’re what humans tend to do when in pain. As a family member or friend, it’s your job to be their care advocate, to keep the continuity in their care. Even if your loved one is in a care home or has a health aide, don’t expect them to be on top of this. You know their personality and can notice subtle changes. You’re the one who has been in their life the longest. You’re the one they need, the one they’re most likely trying to ask for help.

Do some basic health checks each week. Look for cloudy or odd-smelling urine. Look for dark stool that has changed and might have blood in it. Put on a glove and run your finger through their mouth to check for abscesses or loose teeth. Do a light massage from head to toe, gently pull on their limbs and rotate them, and feel for broken bones, cracked ribs, and a swollen abdomen.

Check for bruises, swollen places, and lumps on the head. Make sure their pupils are the same size. Listen for a bad cough or for rattling in the chest (might be bronchitis, pneumonia, or congestive heart failure). You might want to buy a blood pressure cuff (they’re easy to learn to use), stethoscope, and have a good flashlight available. This can save you exhausting doctor visits and give you an indication as to what’s going on.

Even though your spouse, mom, or dad has Alzheimer’s, they don’t stop being themselves. You’ll still see aspects of their personality, and you know them—you’ll be able to pick up on small cues. Listen to your gut. If you really have a deep gut feeling that something is wrong, it probably is. Don’t rule out elder-abuse. It’s sad, but it happens. Sometimes care assistants are just rough and don’t realize how fragile an elder can be. Others are cruel. If you have doubts, install a granny cam and stop by often.

We have to be sharp and aware of what’s going on. Even though we’re exhausted and have too much to do, this isn’t an area we can slack on. Our loved ones needs us. And if you find something now that you’ve overlooked, don’t beat yourself up. You’ve been thrown into the deep end of the caregiving pool and sometimes it’s all you can do to keep from going under.

Guilt paralyzes and you don’t have time for inaction.

Now you know. Now you’re taking action.